Don't worry about becoming an expert quickly. Even people who have worked in SEO for 10 years are still learning because search engines change constantly. Consistency matters more than speed.

A $1,000/month goal is realistic if you stay focused and keep learning.

You could try reaching out to affiliate networks that specialize in dating offers. Many of them work directly with advertisers.

This is one of the most balanced explanations I've read in a while.